
Now *I* know this, but a lot of you often greet this concept with disbelief: You don't have to stop being rockin' when you become a mama. This is the fundamental idea behind a fascinating in-progress documentary by Jackie Weissman for
Rock Mama Films, out of Portland, Oregon.
Weissman became interested in exploring the intersection of artistic passions and oft-all-consuming parenting responsibilities after her son was born. As she began reading about rocker mamas who were doing the balancing act, she became inspired. When her son was three she undertook this documentary to track women such as
Kristen Hersh from Throwing Muses (who has
four sons, ranging in age from 19 to 2),
Corin Tucker of Sleater-Kinney (who often takes her son Marshall on tour with her), and
Zia McCabe of the Dandy Warhols through their daily lives of rock 'n' roll, diapers, and skinned knees.
The segment of this short trailer that I found most fascinating, although all three of these women rock, was the final piece featuring Kristen Hersh of Throwing Muses fame. I appreciated her perspective with what she had to say:
"The challenges of motherhood are only . . . eating and sleeping! It's kind of a lot to give up . . . showering, stuff like that (laughs) . . . shaving your legs. But how could you ever care? It's not over quickly, like people say -- not if you're paying attention every minute of every day. But the fact that it will be over? That's . . . that's just crazy. You have no right to complain about giving up everything if someday that amazing universe is gonna be over."
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Wow!!!
Did you know that today is Mothers day Here in Mexico?
Pretty Awesome.
Mario,
I could lie and say yes, yes I knew that because I am so culturally aware. But actually, no, I didn't - just good timing! Happy Dia de los Madres to yours...
:)
Well, it might be an interesting documentary but I have a hard time believing any artist who claims rock music isn't, at its base, narcissistic. Claiming the 'business' is the bad part is rationalization. This narcissism sort of conflicts with the motherhood concept. The idea that rock stars end up with messed-up kids is not a cause and effect example, but it's anecotal. I played drums in high school but the guitar in college. Know why? Because you can't take drums to the park and pick up chicks. That, my friends, is a cause and effect example.
thanks heather for the mention. oh so nice.
oh and to moderator, of course many people are making music to pick up chicks and certainly it's a wholly narcisistic endeavor, but I think there are a musicians who could be nothing but musicians and if they didn't create they would implode, not for want of attention, but because its just inside them, a piece of them, almost unexplainable and a whole lot like... motherhood. (which by the way has its own hugely narcissistic components too.) naive of me? romantic of me? perhaps. but i don't care one willy.
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